
Dilemma of the Month: How Do I Give an Employee a Religious Accommodation?
I need to encourage a manager to accept a religious accommodation
request, as it is reasonable, in my opinion. The employee, who is
Balinese Hindu, has requested a 10-minute prayer break at noon as
part of her religion.

Dilemma of the Month: How Do I Go Back to My Old Job?
I am considering stepping back from a managerial role to an
individual contributor role. I am burned out… When I think
hard, I just want to return to an individual contributor role and
stop being responsible for other people. Will I destroy my career
if I do this?

Dilemma of the Month: How Do I Tell an Internal Candidate He’s Not a Good Fit?
I just started at a new company a few weeks ago. We have an
internal candidate, Steve, for a position, and the hiring manager
does not want to interview him because Steve previously worked a
temp position in their office and made many mistakes that caused
many issues. The problem I’m having is that they never told Steve
there were issues with his job performance.

Dilemma of the Month: Can I Go on Vacation While I’m Baby Bonding?
I know I was singled out because I’m an HR employee and was told,
“It looks bad,” but do you think I should tell my boss
(nicely and professionally) to shove it and that I’ll bond with
my next baby any way I see fit?

Dilemma of the Month: Do I Have to Use My PTO for Appointments?
A salaried employee works over 50 hours a week, but her manager
still insists that she use PTO to cover a half-day appointment.
Is this legal?

Dilemma of the Month: Am I Too Aggressive, or Is My Accuser Being Sexist?
“After working in HR for 30 years, I was told today that I was
‘too aggressive’ and that I came across as if I had an
agenda. I have never had someone say this to me before…” Is he
right? Evil HR Lady weighs in.

Dilemma of the Month: How Do I Deal With a Micromanager?
Boss always looking over your shoulder? Evil HR Lady says
they may be a control freak, or it could be due
to poor performance on your end. Here’s how to move
forward.

Dilemma of the Month: How Do I Respond to Requests for References?
Evil HR Lady explains the difference between a background check
and a reference check, and why employers don’t need to answer
every question.

Dilemma of the Month: What’s Wrong With an Open-Concept Office?
An open-concept, hoteling workspace can save space and money.
Some employees might even prefer it if they like to change up
their point of view. But others just hate it.

Dilemma of the Month: Can I Fire an Employee on Medical Leave?
Evil HR Lady says you can’t hold FMLA or ADA against an employee,
but you can still hold them accountable for their work when they
are there.